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[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 4 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Do you get a lot of opportunity to indulge your kinks? If so, do you live in a major city?

[–] PackagedGoth@lemmy.world 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Sadly I don't. I've only really had a chance to do stuff once but other than that, I don't really get a chance which is pretty annoying

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 3 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Yea outside of a small number of experiences with a like minded friend who is no longer available I haven't had much of a chance to explore that side of myself either

[–] PackagedGoth@lemmy.world 3 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

It's annoying because even after finding someone who is into it, there are always weirdos or people who u feel u can't trust too much with u being that vulnerable

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Yea. I mean I'm a dude so slightly less of a concern for me compared to yourself but still concerning.

I live in a fairly isolated town so it's not impossible for me to get to events but a little difficult and expensive. Other events and stuff to spend money on always come up. I did go to a Torture Garden event once, but that was over 10 years ago 😱

[–] PackagedGoth@lemmy.world 3 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I live in the Uk and Kink events aren't really a thing here, at least I haven't seen any about or advertised etc.

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 3 points 4 weeks ago

I'm in England, the north specifically. Kink events do happen in the UK but they're rare and mostly in London or Birmingham.