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Which is worse, getting rejected by your crush or seeing your crush with someone else? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 2 months ago by lriv724 to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] vodkasolution@feddit.it 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Getting rejected because you know three will be no future, while if your crush is with someone else, you can still hope to have a chance in the future.
But in the end, either way it's s bad day.

[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 11 points 2 months ago

I think false hope is worse than harsh reality because it can keep you from moving on.