I actually have a friend who felt the same way. For years he talked how one of those days he was going to get it on with a dude just to make sure he didn't swing both ways. I couldn't argue with his logic, how can we be sure if we never tried?

One day he put his money where his mouth was. Now he's sure he's not bi and no longer talks about it XD

[–] Ketram@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 months ago

Tbh, I was part of a very LGBTQA+ group of people, but I was one of the very few just straight people. I made out with a lot of dudes and that was enough for me to tell that I wasn't into it. Didn't feel that same heart-thumping feeling that I feel with a person of the opposite sex.

I do still kind of wish I was bi just to see what it's like. But I'm straighter than an arrow