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In some ways it seems manipulative. Sometimes it is indeed a yes or no question, but most people know that certain answers require further explanation. It gives off the impression that you don’t wanna hear someone’s side of the story/debate. Sometimes “yes, but” or “no, but” is warranted.

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[–] i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca 10 points 4 months ago (3 children)

“It’s a yes or no question” = “I want a yes or no answer”

[–] lriv724 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

But not everything will be just a yes or no answer.

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

The question was presented as yes or no. It's your prerogative to want to provide additional information, it is the prerogative of the asker to want a simple answer. It's inconsistent to champion the desires of the responder while disregarding the desires of the asker. Unless there's some kind of power imbalance (e.g. employer/employee), every party is entitled to engage with others as they see fit.

[–] lriv724 2 points 4 months ago

Horrible way of thinking but go off I guess

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