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Saying "it's a yes or no question" is not always fair.
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this post was submitted on 25 Aug 2024
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Everybody thinks differently.
When talking to someone like that, just explain that for you to view it like that, first all the context needs spelled out.
Like:
Treat it like a straight yes/no question and the answer is "no". 99.99999% that's the answer.
But what if there's like, a really big spider? Or the thing from The Thing and you're in Antarctica?
Don't frame it as an excuse for why someone did something, ask for or provide the context. Be empathetic and think like the person you're talking to, don't argue with them treat it as as small independent steps that led or leads to what they're asking about.