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Like, why do you care so much if she's sleeping with a new guy after just divorcing or her coming out or that rich family buying a new mansion? How does that affect your life?

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[–] 001Guy001@lemm.ee 13 points 3 months ago

To add and reiterate what others have said:

  • It's similar to following sports and knowing all the game results, who's injured/out for the season, etc.
  • People like to feel part of larger society/culture, and to feel knowledgeable, to feel "in on things"
  • It's a way to fill time/fill the void, a distraction from "real life" which can leave you feeling powerless/drained
  • It can be a good conversation topic with friends when there's not much to talk about (or when other topics can be contentious)