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That is 300% the stereotype of Berlin. But it's true. If you like to be surrounded by leftist, queer, vegan people and waiters that speak english better than german: Berlin is your place.
Maybe look up where to live. You said you like a more rural place... Many many other people also like to live in the outskirts and surrounding areas of Berlin. But it's a bit different from other rural areas. I think it's called the "Speckgürtel".
Also i'd like to mention the city of Cologne, which is known for being queer.
I don't necessarily need to me immersed in it, but having community and good food nearby is a welcome change. Especially being able to take a train into the city. Here you would need to drive 45+ minutes by car just to find a single gay bar that might be kinda shitty anyway. US cities are similar in that they are more welcoming but frankly, by all other metrics, our cities suck