It's healthy in a long-term relationship to discuss things with your partner before doing them. When you communicate healthily, there are quite a few things you wouldn't just spontaneously decide to do without talking to your significant other. They might have already made plans, they might need the car, they might not want to do the thing but think you should do it, they might remind you that you're saving for a house deposit or a big trip, so on and so forth.

[–] averyfalken@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

I know. Like reading that myind doesn't go to ha the guy thinks his wife's a bitch its more a hey I'm in a long term relationship and that should be a partnership which means sometimes you can't just to and do random shit.

Not to mention all the other responsibilities that keep me a bit more tied down and not going full crazy with zany ideas