i know your heart's in the right place, but suggesting we do away with competition in sports and everyone goes home with a blue ribbon instead so athletes like myself don't feel left out is one of the most patronizing and infantilizing ideas I hear constantly. all it would accomplish is pissing everyone off (including me) and make me feel even more isolated, like my presence is the only reason no one can compete and have fun anymore. i play smash these days, and if someone suggested we include items and stop counting stocks and everyone just have fun, we'd all last ten minutes before walking away to never to play the game again.