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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[–] OttoVonNoob@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

I'm used to the layout of RIF and my niche subreddits NCD/Ukraine Conflict, NBA but I'm posting here and trying to add to the community. Hoping for a better mobile app one day though:X

[–] privacyn@feddit.it 3 points 2 years ago

Fuck technofascists

[–] treagod@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I feel just a bit heartbroken but at the same time I really love the concept of lemmy.

I'm just a little afraid that lemmy is just a short-lived alternative and the people go back because not everything is working perfect right now.

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[–] Lumilias@pawb.social 3 points 2 years ago

Honestly yes, I had been using Reddit since at least 2010 and I was a strong forum user before that. Losing the community hurts, and fuck spez for forgetting his roots.

[–] _Stalwart_@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Not sad, just disappointed. They could have the perfect app and they ruined it, all just for more money.

[–] _ice_witch_@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I had been getting sick of the direction reddit has headed for the past couple years and have been looking for alternatives. I discovered lemmy at basically the perfect time. So I guess I'm not too heartbroken mostly because I've been frustrated with the platform for quite a while.

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[–] MinkLitly@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

I'm sad for the hidden gems of smaller communities that I loved but couldn't move to lemmy/didn't know about lemmy or generally rely on mass platforms to get the action going being so small. I hope one day they migrate.

[–] saigot@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I've been trying to jump for a long time now, I used tildes for a while, but it just didn't have enough content I'm interested in. Now it seems lemmy is gaining enough steam to be my primary social media.

Reddit really peaked with the Obama ama. After that it was all downhill, the place grew too quickly to keep its culture.

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[–] thisisdee@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Absolutely! I was able to find so many communities and started new hobbies there. Any random thing I can think of, you can probably find a sub there. But I just have to remind myself that I was there for 12 years so it just takes time to find that elsewhere.

[–] sleepyTonia@programming.dev 3 points 2 years ago

Hmm~ I guess I feel sad a little, yeah. Reddit was a pretty cool place. Still is if you hang in the right communities. But I do most of my browsing using a mobile app as of late and if they're killing off RIF and Apollo, I might as well look elsewhere. I also feel a little optimistic about this "migration" slowly taking place, since this time it's not out of some knee-jerk reaction to admins banning some problematic subreddits, spawning places like Voat.

And the federated, open-source nature of Lemmy/Kbin/Mastodon reminds me of how a group of friends can create their own Discord server.

[–] Betazed@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 2 years ago

I'm not breaking up yet but I'm definitely gonna cheat a little while Reddit goes through their drama!

[–] SolNine@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

I don't really care... Reddit is constantly spamming me with follow bots from Only Fans, and I have never posted in a NSFW sub.

I'm also hopeful the way this is structured we will see a bit better moderation of servers/subs.

[–] sorrowstouch@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Maybe now I'll be abit happier lol seeing nothin but mad American politics and videos of nazi rallies just makes me lose hope for humanity, at least of it's more out of sight that'll be better for everyone's mental health

It's complicated. joined in 2018 right before they introduced new reddit and even back then there was a stigma reddit was "getting bad". However, reddit has been the best place for me to discover new things and the niche communities and interests were really great. I use an extension (that will surely die alongside the 3rd party apps) to find reddit comments associated with any youtube video that made my browsing really great.

The thing that makes me most upset is how they pulled out the rug from so many people and then acted like it was the people on top of the rug's fault it was pulled.

[–] Arklese1zure@lemmy.one 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think what breaks my heart even more than the whole mess about 3rd party apps is that people are not going to care in a couple weeks, and just revert to reddit. Everyone just wants to go back to how things were.

There's gonna be a bunch of abandoned accounts here.

I hope I'm wrong.

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[–] Crocrodile@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Personnellement je ne viens pas sur Lemmy Γ  cause des mauvaises dΓ©cisions de Reddit, mais tout simplement parceque je pense que Lemmy est une meilleure place. Le fediverse est pour moi une rΓ©volution de l'internet actuelle et je me sens tellement plus confortable sur ces plateformes qui respectent mes valeurs. Donc non, je ne vis absolument pas mal le fait de quitter Reddit

[–] aMalayali@beehaw.org 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm from the state of Kerala in India. We had 4-5 active n quite decent subreddits on the state, local memes n all.
People are moving into lemmy, but many might not. Some might stay away from reddit, even after the blackout ends. Overall, I think they were fun people to interact with and since it's not sure whether an equivalent community will be built up here, it's sort of a loss.

[–] ellie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago

I was always aware this could happen, but never expected it would happen. Reddit has been a part of my life for years. I never felt good about the company, but thanks to the communities on there, I found so many amazing things and learned so much. As absurd as it sounds, I had completely life changing moments begin on Reddit. So yeah, I'm sad about what happened, but I'm optimistic that we can build something better.

[–] Illecors@lemmy.cafe 2 points 2 years ago

Not at all. Probably because I was not a mod of any subreddit. I've commented every now and then, but that bit is the same here.

[–] miles@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago

tbh i've been so sick of reddit lately that i've been spending time on 4chan again, which is really saying something

hoping the fediverse will put a stop to that lmfao

[–] potatoseus@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

I like that it's back to small communities. Like Reddit once was.

[–] Overplay8276@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

I had reddit filtered to the eyeballs to avoid the random drama and bullshit that seemed to infect the larger subs. I was hugely into Ruqqus before it imploded, and have always held out hope for an alternative to take off. The key now is for the blackout to actually be a lasting protest, and not just a "uwu we stopped for 2 days but we're all back now"

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