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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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Nah. I never liked using centralized monoliths like Reddit and other social media sites but stayed there due to lack of alternatives. I'm glad to see a federated network like Lemmy getting enough activity that I can ditch Reddit.

[–] Mane25@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

Kind of cautiously optimistic at this stage, Reddit has been going steeply downhill for the last few years - if the "blackout" does nothing for Reddit then maybe it could succeed in drawing attention to alternatives.

[–] promodel@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I feel like it's a break up with an abusive partner. I'm relieved but also sad.

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[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Reddit has gone downhill for a couple of years. I am glad it will die.

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[–] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

No it's long since passed it's prime when it stood for something nows its just a cash grab.

As Ivan Drago says if he dies , he dies

[–] Violet@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

In a way I'm a little sad but I'm also hopeful. I started on Reddit 13 years ago and it was a very different place than it is now. I liked it better then, and I think I'm sad and will miss it for what it was, not what it is. I'm hopeful for a fresh start here on Lemmy where it feels like I'm getting back to the actual conversation with other users, which is what I miss about the current Reddit. There's very little conversation there anymore, so much of it is just pictures and jokes and bots.

[–] kokos5@latte.isnot.coffee 4 points 2 years ago

Yeah lemmy seems like whats reddit was 8 years ago. This is awesome and community is really help full with migration. we just have to migrate popular subs.

[–] Robust_Mirror@aussie.zone 5 points 2 years ago

No I don't get attached to things like social media sites.

[–] Phrax@reddthat.com 5 points 2 years ago

It reminds me of when I tried switching to Linux (from Windows). Functional but lacking a lot of mainstream software, especially games. Lemmy feels way easier to use like a normal website, but there is a feeling almost akin to homesickness.

[–] Abridgedlife@latte.isnot.coffee 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I am not sad. It started to feel a bit like a bad addiction. The huge increase in casual users also brought a whole bunch of corporate accounts running heavy PR activity on reddit, and quality of discussion has tanked, probably from a lot of bots commenting.

I stayed on Reddit a lot for support forums that were prone to brigading attacks. I know how hard the mods were working to keep the spaces constructive. Reddit is not only trying to sell my attention as a commodity they own, but also under appreciating the mods volunteer hours for why the site was worth it.

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[–] BeardedGuy@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago

Totally agree. My reddit account is 12 years old, and I was only just now starting to gain confidence that there would already be a sprawling community for a new topic I found. I know it will take a long time to get that feeling again, but it's also refreshing to see the fantastic discussions on this platform.

[–] CybrRunnr@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I felt a little like that. I miss a few of my favorite subs. The β€œbreak up” feelings went away when I stopped lurking and started participating.

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Absolutely. I had 86k karma, and wasted 3-4 years on there...

Not that much compared to some people but I like to think that I contributed a lot of content to the site.

Now I saw this crap and decided to move.

[–] AbSoluTc@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 years ago

Yes and no. Reddit had become toxic and a shadow of it's former self. It was a good run for 11 years. Hopefull Lemmy can be an alternative. :)

[–] gnuslashdhruv@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

I'm really hoping some of my smaller communities focused on specific novels or games make the leap over.

[–] milkytoast@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago

I'm mostly sad about losing the communites i loved, for which I have not yet found a comarable one on lemmy. r/cars and r/cartalk mostly

[–] Jimmycrackcrack@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Nah, they were just a company after all. The strongest feeling I get is that it's just a bummer because I've grown to depend on the platform so much and now I've got to try and adapt.

At the same time, as this thing that was previously an interesting little curiosity on a corner of the web grew to be a big time suck and addiction, the dopamine hit returns and actually helpful interactions I was getting from Reddit were diminishing anyway so when there was finally a convenient push to make me try harder to either find an alternative or just ditch it, I was strangely grateful.

I do feel like I'm losing something that was very useful resource and which also filled a need, albeit one that it created in the first place, but at the end of the day, it's just a forum. I can't really feel betrayed or heartbroken by an entity that was only ever intended to make money and had no obligation to my approval.

[–] exRedditor@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Definitely! I will miss my late-night reading and scrolling. Also, getting invested in comment sections and learning new things from strangers. I will miss Apollo so much.

[–] waspentalive@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (6 children)

It's like the Ikea lamp commercial. A person has a well-used lamp they have had for a long time. They go to Ikea and find a new lamp that is better and nicer. In the next scene, the old lamp is left on the curb. In the rain. alone. abandoned. The Ikea person comes on and asks "Do you feel bad for the old lamp?"

I only hope we eventually have some of the local communities that were subreddits of yore - like SacramentoBuyNothing - a place to share your old lamp so it does not have to sit out in the rain at the curb.> waspentalive

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[–] SavvyWolf@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

While I hope Lemmy/Kbin takes off (heck, I'd love early internet forums to come back in style) and kicks off a second internet renaissance, the imminent collapse of Reddit legit is giving me anxiety. Hope y'all don't mind if I vent a bit.

Firstly, there are a lot of "niche" communities on Reddit, mostly dedicated to individual games and the like. The kind of thing where fanart, announcements and discussions happen. In the short term, I don't see them surviving the collapse. And if they do, they'll probably move to a not-great platform like Discord or whatever Facebook comes out with.

Secondly, with SEO optimized AI generated garbage topping search results, Reddit has become an important reference when looking for reviews and opinions on things. As well as that, it has become somewhat of an archive of internet culture in a way. With subreddits moving to black out permanently and a push for users shredding their own data, there's a very real chance that all of this content will be lost forever.

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[–] carlyman@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I actually feel more relieved. It has become toxic and dominated by bots. As soon as a real person posts anything, it's immediately down voted

I'm enjoying Lemmy much more. Reminds me of the internet of old.

[–] howdy@thesimplecorner.org 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I feel the same. Just releif. Since the redesign and official app, deep down I knew where it was heading. It's different this time (vs voat) where there is an alternative that has the spirit of why we all enjoyed reddit to begin with and without the commercialism that reddit has become. It's early, surely lots of challenges ahead for this idea but the decentralized nature I think will be very interesting and will allow for the more mainstream community to create a pleasant experience for those that wish it. Also, Lemmy is need of some technical polishing and ease of use, bug fixes, etc. Instances will also need funding by providing transparency and decent moderation. It's like reddit but without trying to monetize your content. Lol

It's all very exciting!

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[–] W0lf@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 years ago

Not really. I didn't comment much, hell I've had an account over ten years and barely interacted with any community. Really, I'd just use it as a news source for my interests. Or to kill time on breaks at work and shit. Probably will miss some subs but my theory is they will pop up elsewhere. Perhaps not ran by the same people but that might be a good thing.

[–] MavTheHack@lemmy.fmhy.ml 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I'll miss the r/place

Joining discords and forming alliances with complete strangers over a few pixels was quite a good time

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[–] Ataraxia@lemmy.fmhy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

No. All I got from reddit was negative interactins and videos of decapitations... I think this is a good time to get away from that place.

[–] Luminance6716@lemmy.one 4 points 2 years ago

I went from digg to Reddit during that mass exodus and will be doing the same from Reddit to Lemmy. It is a little bittersweet seeing what Reddit was 10+ years ago to what it’s become, but I’m excited for the future and to see what becomes of Lemmy, kbin, etc.

[–] ZenkorSoraz@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

Yes Reddit was great before it betrayed its users with a level of discourse and creativity not seen anywhere on the internet

[–] bkkcitypokey@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

I do yes. I've been on that place for 4 - 5 years and moving out for the first time is quite a change.

[–] ShawnKnight@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

I'm dissapointed, i loved reddit but seeing them go and make the changes i didn't like. It was heartbreaking for me, i loved Reddit but The Reddit of the Past is not the Reddit of today

[–] KiofKi@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago

Yes, I do. Reddit was a great source for troubleshooting and interesting knowledge. But without the drama and the resulting digital diaspora I would have never found out about lemmy.

[–] OttoVonNoob@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

I'm used to the layout of RIF and my niche subreddits NCD/Ukraine Conflict, NBA but I'm posting here and trying to add to the community. Hoping for a better mobile app one day though:X

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