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[–] hperrin@lemmy.world 31 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

This is entirely the extortionists fault, so don’t think I’m saying otherwise. I can’t help but feel these boys wouldn’t be driven to suicide if it weren’t for such toxic views of sexuality in our society.

It was the same way when I was a boy. You’re basically taught by society, media, religion, and often your parents, that masturbation (particularly for men) is disgusting and harmful. Or that having your nudes leaked is shameful. It’s shameful for the person who leaked them, but not at all shameful for the subject. They’re a victim. That’s not shameful.

[–] mycodesucks@lemmy.world 18 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Honestly, caution about this kind of scam online needs to be part of education from an early age in the modern world. You simply can't trust young kids to figure things out on their own when the stakes are potentially this high. Yes, you should be immediately suspicious at a private message out of the blue from someone you don't know. Always assume the worst. Sure, it's an incredibly harsh worldview, but it's no different than the "never talk to strangers" we already teach.

[–] ashok36@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

Hard to disagree. We need to drill into kids heads that real girls will never ever not in a million years ask a dude they've never met for a nude picture. The girls need to be taught to never ever send a nude either, because only scammers do that.

Yeah, boyfriends and girlfriends will still sext each other. That will never change. But randos? Nah, no random on Instagram is going to send you a nude two hours after you start talking.

[–] Gigan@lemmy.world 17 points 7 months ago (2 children)

What horrible people. Hearing their callous disregard for their victims is infuriating.

[–] inetknght@lemmy.ml 9 points 7 months ago

Absolutely. If you're passionate about it then you might want to learn more about how the scams are enabled by modern technology's complete disregard for security and privacy.

[–] morrowind@lemmy.ml 1 points 7 months ago

Based on the article, they seem to be following scripts. It's unclear how well they even understand English.

[–] delirious_owl 0 points 7 months ago

Wait till you learn about what happens to girls online