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When I was on Reddit I felt like my opinion didn’t matter. But here it just feels more open and free.

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[–] esty@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

i feel most of the people that actually made the jump to lemmy are the more mature and calmer crowd as compared to your average Redditor

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[–] Thurgo@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Most of my Reddit commenting was done on threads for people looking for advice in one of my hobbies. I generally had a good experience giving feedback here since most people in the subreddit were level headed. Sometimes you got the occasional asshole parroting the usual online "best way to do something" that goes against some people's actual real life experience that is being shared.

I didn't really make any meaningful (non joke) comments outside of this subreddit since I didn't feel like getting some dick in my notifications trying to start a fight over whatever I posted. Sometimes I didn't mind battling the dicks in the hobby subreddit since people lurking can actually learn or get a different perspective from "No, you shouldn't take what's in a listicle as fact. Here is my experience with this."

Definitely. I'm both posting and commenting way more. I need to do my part to make sure this thing really takes off!

[–] Fubarberry@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Depends, I was mainly active on small subreddits that were focused on things I was interested in. Here those small subs don't exist yet (or are very inactive), but the lower overall user count means I'm interacting with a lot more communities than I would on reddit.

[–] thesanewriter@vlemmy.net 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I definitely am. I may have more comments and posts here than on Reddit already and I have only been here a fraction of the time.

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[–] Kiloee@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I feel like I am not yet, but I will be. Some of the subs I have on Reddit aren’t here yet, partly because they’re either niche or liked by a lot of people that are less tech literate including their maintainers.

I have gone trough some instances before deciding on my current one and I like the stance of most that are for an active discussion, against mindless downvotes and for overall more communication than social media consumption.

The fact that there is next to no automated account making will also help in the long run I think. It makes it an less attractive target for the bad kind of bots imo.

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[–] br0da@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

On Reddit I was afraid to comment or post because of the inevitable onslaught of users who would try to start a keyboard fight on the most trivial of topics. It hindered me from just sharing any kind of opinion or cool accomplishment to the point where I would just comment with a one-word or one-liner in hopes it's not petrol. Getting shit on turns you in to a lurker. I've engaged more on Lemmy in the past 2 weeks than I have on Reddit in years. I like it here.

[–] onlinely@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

Not yet. My niche communities don’t exist in the fediverse yet like they do on Reddit, and I do not have the bandwidth to start new communities right now. Excited to watch it grow and continue to contribute where I can.

[–] robonps@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Lemmy just feels better to comment/interact with. I just feel more motivated to be active on here.

[–] ickplant@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Absolutely, I'm way more active on here. Reddit is so oversaturated, it's impossible to comment on a post before it already has hundreds of comments unless you have time to sit in New and comment as submissions come in. Here, I feel like someone will actually read what I write. Thanks for reading!

[–] hoodlem@hoodlem.me 3 points 2 years ago

MUCH more active here for me

[–] t0fr@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Yes, absolutely. I'm still not sure if it's because the whole community is smaller here, the people are better, no Karma competition, or a combination of all the above

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I feel like I have seen more conversations on Lemmy about Reddit than original content

[–] z3k3lon@lemmy.pt 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I haven't browsed Reddit since a couple of weeks now. I am definitely more active on Lemmy.

[–] annabanana@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

I am definitely feeling more motivated to participate here. It feels like a very welcoming environment so far.

[–] dap@lemmy.onlylans.io 3 points 2 years ago

Absolutely. As much as I loved Reddit, I always felt drowned out due to the large user base and was hesitant to share my opinion. Thanks to Lemmy and its (currently) smaller communities, I feel like my voice has wider reach or, at the very least, less aggressive competition.

[–] imkmiaw@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I am a bit more active here than I was in Reddit because I feel like here we don't really find the toxicity we had on Reddit, at least in my opinion.

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[–] Inari@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

This place feels more relaxed and open, while reddit felt absurdly competitive and suffocating at times. It used to just be a place to talk to other people about specific topics (and it still is in some places), but now so much of it feels like a competition for the most upvotes and awards.

[–] briongloid@aussie.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

My local cities daily thread is more active than it what's left on Reddit, despite the Reddit community having 600k subs. 410 comments on the Reddit thread, 480 on the lemmy community thread.

It's been like this daily.

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[–] MiddleWeigh@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Yes. Smaller community, and generally more intelligent, or at least more capable of having a meaningful discussion.

I think it's something that happens when you throw a larger group of people together, like reddit, where people act a bit different ime

Even I am less toxic, and more positive. Something about reddit messed that up.

Atp, I'm here more for discourse than any specific content, and that's something I really missed about social media.

[–] Md1501@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

I have not been on reddit since the protest, but I didnt post or comment a lot anyway so probably not much of an impact

[–] glob@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

This is my second comment since joining this morning, so yes, significantly more active.

[–] imgprojts@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

The smaller the community, the bigger the impact of your opinions.

For example, just on my own, I can reach a good 50% impact on anything I say unless my wife says something different.

[–] Kongar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 years ago

Agreed - stopped posting and sharing on Reddit a while ago. I engage more and find this place more engaging. It’s good!

[–] shemishtamesh@vlemmy.net 2 points 2 years ago

yes, never had a reddit account.

[–] G1ZMO_DRAG0N@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Honestly, I'm trying to be more active in here. The whole defederation thing going around has me confused about where my account lives and replicating what's on it. Makes it hard to stay active if I don't know what's going to happen haha

[–] freeman@lemmy.pub 2 points 2 years ago

I hear ya. Thats why i just setup my own instance....

[–] Borgzilla@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago

Yes, I didn't have an account and I always browsed via a proxy (Teddit). I didn't want to be manipulated by the algorithm.

[–] supermurs@suppo.fi 2 points 2 years ago

For me it was always difficult to be active on R so the atmosphere here is much more pleasant.

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