After 26 years of undiagnosed Aspergers and then two years of diagnosed Aspergers, I am finally dating someone for the first time at the age of 28, and it's going really well. I sincerely believed before a couple of months ago that I was going to die alone. I worked really hard, spent a bunch of money on therapy and dating coaches, and it's finally starting to pay off. We're still early into the relationship and haven't really done anything intimate yet, but we both like each other a whole lot and I think we both want the relationship to progress.
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