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Kinda burying the lede here. They are all different forms of “questioning their authority”
not wanting to be touched
That was a big one that contributed to my divorce. Even after decades and with the person who was supposed to be my closest relationship, and even after explaining a million times that the worse my autoimmune illness got, the less I wanted to be touched, it was a massive problem.
I still don’t get it, because I’ve never once thought someone else not wanting me to touch them impacted me in any way. I also never feel the need to touch other people. I guess that’s weird.
Maybe people just like to be offended. It can be a very attractive narrative.
You could call it unrealistic, but when has "realism" mattered in what anybody thought?
when has “realism” mattered in what anybody thought?
According to Wikipedia, since at least the Classical Period of Ancient Greece.
As: Saying what you mean.
If the term "allistic" offends you: grow up, it's a new word. Is learning a new word scary? Cis isn't offensive. Allistic isn't offensive. If you become insecure because a previously unnamed characteristic or condition or yours suddenly receives a name that doesn't have implicit negative connotations, you should go work on whatever problem you have.
If the term "allistic" offends you: grow up, it's a new word. Is learning a new word scary?
I have no particular opinion on the term "allistic," but what happened to the maxime that each group should get the final say on the terminology applied to that specific group?
Now we're saying to a specific group "hey, from now on we'll call you all this new term and you all can just shut up and deal with it, because you don't get a say?"
Seems like contradicting messages.
Allistics wouldn't have come up with a term to categorize themselves, because they already see themselves as "the normal" that doesn't need to be categorized. Save that, I'm not against them choosing a different word - but it would still be chosen by one or a few of them for an unchoosing vast majority.
Holy shit this thread is cruel. I scrolled for way too long and started thinking I was pages deep into some general-interest place on Reddit. Nope, it's c/Autism. Kinda the last place I'd expect to be okay with piles of hateful NTs coming in to point and laugh and talk trash at us.
Also, very agree regarding the terminology-whining. Kinda hard to believe every term non-minority sorts find out about gets screamed about, claiming it's a slur. Equality feeling like oppression, I guess. Only "those people" get words; everyone else is just "normal." Grr.
J dont habe anything against the termb and ive never Seen anyone bitch about it to me it seems like you are just looking for an argument
I never really thought about this like that...