Dungeons and Dragons

As a DM, I ask my players at session zero, do you want me to fudge rolls to make the game more fun/interesting, or let the dice fall how they may? I've never had a table ask me to not fudge the dice.

sometimes the dice need to hit... and sometimes they don't ;)

As a player, I make a point of telling my GMs that I dislike fudged rolls and I'd rather roll a new character than claim a false victory.

As a GM, I will always at session 0 tell my players that I don't fudge rolls and often prefer to make my GM rolls out in the open whenever there's a chance they could kill someone or end an encounter. My attitude is that when the players can see my rolls and I tell them in advance "if this is higher than X it'll hit so-and-so", we're all on the same side as we watch the roll play out.

IMO it's not the job of the GM to tilt the game system itself towards the players, but rather to balance encounters and challenges to be beatable, and then see what happens right alongside the players.

To answer your question, tell him if it affects your experience of the game. Don't let it ruin your fun in silence, no GM wants players to do that.

My DM once fudged something and I didn't question it at all. It was in curse of Strahd, the party was level 3. He was using the RAW rules in the adventure for random encounters, one of which says the party can get jumped by 3d6 wolves. He rightly surmised that us getting ganked 10 wolves wasn't a very interesting conclusion to our story, so he made up some dumb deus ex machina, and I was 100% there for it. If WOTC can't make a balanced random encounter table, why should we be beholden to it?

I'm still a pretty new player, but I'm fairly certain that in my group's second combat encounter, our DM saw that we were going to struggle, so a few rounds before he thought we'd die, he started hinting that people on the street were hearing us. He didn't play around with his rolls at all, which meant us getting hit by some very powerful (even permanently crippling) critical hits, and some of us rolling awfully on his critical miss table. As we started to go down, one by one, the door was getting battered, and when the crew was down to 1 member alive, the city guard arrived and intervened, scaring the remaining mobs and healing up the three of us on the floor.

To me, it meant that he cared about the dice rolls and wanted consequences and actions to feel real, but also he didn't want our journey to end on the first night. But he didn't make the entire encounter feel like a victory, and our characters had to deal with the repercussions of that encounter.

If they want to pretend they're not doing it, sure, I'll pretend I don't see it. If I think they're fudging the dice too much, and it bothers me, I might bring it up with them privately, or I might suggest a group discussion, or I might just leave.

In general, I try to evaluate a GM as the whole package, rather than just the individual choices they make. If I like their campaigns, there's no point in picking on individual decisions (beyond obligatory mild grumbling, of course, lol). Sometimes, they're going to get results using techniques I wouldn't choose, which is fine. If I don't like their campaigns, there's still no point in picking on individual decisions. I would rather drop out as soon as I realize something isn't working out than stick around, lose my temper, and say something I will regret.

Long time DM currently running Curse of Strahd for my group. I think I’m in the minority but I actually publicly roll everything. I use Foundry and let my players see all of my results. I also insist on seeing all of theirs. I find it actually kind of fun.

My DMs have rolled in the open, I kind of like it that way keeps the intensity in the game and combat, but they are nice enough to not attack us while we are downed.

Since I'm from the OSR niche, fudging dice is a big no-no for me. When I GM I roll in the open and would prefer if my GM would do the same.

For me, fudged dice cheapens any victory and makes me less enthusiastic about the game. The stakes are gone.

The point is to tell an exciting story - there's no right or wrong definition of what that means for you.

The dice's purpose is to take you down paths you might not have chosen deliberately but the goal is still to have an exciting story. If the DM wants to be like "I recognize the dice have made a decision but given that it's a stupid ass decision, I've elected to ignore it" then he has my full support.

Maybe a cleaner way would be to decide up front: which outcomes am I ok with? and simply cap the roll at that. You know the paladin only has 17 HP left and you don't want the paladin to go down so the maximum roll you want is 16. So if you have roll 4d6 damage. You do: roll 3 roll 8 roll 12 roll ~~18~~ 16.

Fudged dice ruin the mood for me. If I'm playing, I'm there to figure out how to make crazy things work in spite of the risks. If I can't have that, I'd rather just read a book.

I don't usually talk about it in the middle though - I believe arguments at the table should be reserved for serious conflicts (rudeness between players and so on), not personal preferences. This is more a reason I'd check out of a campaign gracefully, and it's also one of a hundred reasons I really prefer to GM instead of play.

If you don't mind dying, tell them and tell them they needn't save you. I would tell tree and ask them not to do that, at least with me. I'd prefer if they wholly didn't but meh

These days I play more 13A and it explicitly discourages such behavior too

I would let him know that he has a tell, yeah. As for whether or not rolls should get fudged, I guess it depends on what you're trying to get out of the game. For me and my players, my emphasis is on the continuity of the story I'm telling, so I tend to fudge rolls to keep things moving along.

I haven’t noticed that in my games, but if I was your DM, then I’d rather know that I had a tell

No, I'll call it out. If they fudge it for me, they'll also fudge it against.

Of course I notice, and then I drop out of future sessions.