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[–] Tb0n3@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 year ago (4 children)

There's introverts and then there's extreme social anxiety. They're not the same.

[–] Routhinator@startrek.website 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm just an introvert with ADHDand I agree with this meme. This is especially true after a long day of work. I do not have extreme anxiety or any anxiety in a social situation. I just find them exhausting.

[–] CarterDarter@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I'm the exact same, except I also have terrible anxiety, so that covers both the control and the test.. damn who knew this meme didn't need gatekeepers?

[–] deerdelighted@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago

As an introvert with pretty bad social anxiety, I have to say I'm glad I am not extraverted.

[–] _number8_@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

introversion & social anxiety are frequently comorbid for extremely obvious reasons. there's no reason to gatekeep introversion.

[–] Draedron@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah and the meme is about introverts.

[–] Feirdro@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’d make a million phone call if it replaced one face to face. Brr

[–] Stamets@startrek.website 3 points 1 year ago

Oh same here. If my visage could drift through this life with people remembering it like fingerprints on a forgotten handrail then I'd be much better off.

[–] Gestrid@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

This. I've gotta take about 5 minutes or more to mentally prep for a phone call if it's for business. Afterwards, I'm exhausted.

[–] mayo_cider@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

Introversion and social anxiety are two different things

[–] MaxPower@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah but social gatherings that are mandatory (or "kind of" mandatory) are the real stressors. Those make me sweat and dread tbh.

[–] luciferofastora@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Not me gearing up for a phone call half a dozen times this week only for the phone to be occupied every damn time I call until I just can't get myself to call anymore