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[–] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.world 31 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Remember there’s two sides to every story

Sometimes your friend is the baddie

[–] Smoogs@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

Depends on the situation, like

If it’s drunk parents who beat their kids and one of those kids is your friend. Npd is pretty common as well as generational trauma. And some eras where sexual abuse on young kids was considered ‘hazing’.

That’s not to say some kids can be little shits that make that stuff up in order to watch someone suffer.

But either way these are all presumptions before hearing the story and it would be unfair to pick a side or assassinate character before knowing.

[–] FlembleFabber@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

Yeah true, and some friends if you know them well you know that they can be a lil naughty as well which they might not frame it that way

[–] HexadecimalSky@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

When I woke up they dropped in the group chat, they where finally getting to sleep (Same time zone), bcs there family was keeping them awake, never met them but I already have beef with them.

[–] SARGE@startrek.website 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Me, every time my wife tells me a story of her childhood dealing with her narcissist mother, enabling father, both of whom were neglectful and emotionally abusive to all their children, and her insane sister who for reasons too numerous to count, deserves a spot in whatever hell is the worst one.

[–] atomicorange@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Yep, I fantasize about baiting a physical fight with my husband’s abusive piece of shit father if I ever meet him. I’d lose, but hopefully get the fucker thrown in jail in the process.

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 5 points 1 month ago

How can you eat beef with people without meeting them ?