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K (189?–?) Soviet pioneer. From Kazan, Tartarstan, USSR, K was diagnosed as a β€˜transvestite’ in 1937.

She was given permission by the People’s Court to wear female clothing, her identity papers were changed to her female name, and her name was removed from the military recruitment rolls.

She was featured in a 1957 gynaecology textbook.

M.G. Serdiukov. Sudebnaia ginekologiia I sudebnoi akusherstvo. Moscow: Meditsina 1957: 47-8.
Dan Healey. Homosexual Desire in Revolutionary Russia: The Regulation of Sexual and Gender Dissent. Chicago and London: The University of Chicago Press, 2001: fig 24.

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 25 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)

would anyone here be interested in collaborating on cryptpad to write up a "Why Hexbear?" blurb for trans people for the sidebar? i know a couple people that are trying to hook hexbear into more trans spaces and having a central doc they can point to when people ask why they should switch to hexbear might be useful thonk-trans

would be especially helpful if you found hexbear useful for your transition and wanted to talk about it to more people

join this matrix address if youre interested : https://matrix.to/#/!fYvKJEPbxrfVxxHRPn:matrix.org?via=matrix.org we'll be using it for general propaganda activities i think

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (25 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

Zvyozdochka (11/4 - 11/10)
oscardejarjayes* (11/11 - 11/17)
HelltakerHomosexual* (11/18 - 11/24)
GayTuckerCarlson* (11/25 - 12/1)
Luna* (12/2 - 12/8)
Eco* (12/9 - 12/15)

EstraDoll (3/2 - 3/8)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago

this man is a menace

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Well, she responded and said she only wants to be friends. Not my ideal outcome but it's one I can accept. There are many forms love can take, and friendship is one of them.

Maybe she'll change her mind in the future. I won't count on it though. Eventually I'll find someone else who meets my expectations, though it could be some time before that happens considering how high she's set the bar. I will except nothing less though.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You're really brave for speaking up, and your response is so graceful~

Happy for you anywaymeow-hug

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Being in a relationship isn't as important to me as it once was. Before I started my transition, I sought validation through being in a relationship. But I was never going to feel valid so long as I lived as a man. Now I feel more... complete than I ever have.

A relationship is just an extra bonus in life for me now. aubrey-happy

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You've self actualized. You're glowingkel-bliss

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

I guess that's a good way of putting it. catgirl-happy

All things exist in a transitory state, feelings change, circumstances change, and people change. One should always pursue growth and accept the reality they live in while pursuing a brighter future.

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago (3 children)
[–] Luna@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

I'm so excited and glad they're here catgirl-heart

[–] Zvyozdochka@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

catgirl-happy A huge win for democracy

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Before disco elysium I've talked to myself in my head plenty with distinct voices but after I played the game I've realized I can have even more voices going dubois-finger-guns it takes some effort to get going and fuck me whenever someone interrupts because it take a while for me to pull it back together but damn if it isn't fun

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago

Tulpamancy through internal Disco posting galaxy-brain

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

making a shipping chart but for megathread posters

Some of em are in ships irl

Weird thing to remind me, but I need to make a comment here at some point inquiring about systems. I'm 90% sure I just have ocd and that's what my thoughts are but I feel like I need to know more to be sure

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

crying incoherently about "girls pretty" again

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Oh shit, didn't notice some of the new emotes!

catgirl-heart is really cute

I'm probably gonna get a lot of mileage out of catgirl-flop

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago

catgirl-salute we salute our brave catgirl posters, all these doggirls have had it too good for too long catgirl-hiss

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

catgirl-heart They added the catgirl emotes!

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

catgirl-heart THEY'RE HERE catgirl-happy THEY'RE HERE catgirl-salute

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Had a dream I kept up with voice training and had a nice fem voice I liked -_-

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Not gonna lie, having some semblance of a skincare routine feels pretty good, even if it's just washing my face, applying makeup, wiping makeup off, washing face, and then applying aftershave after I shave and after I wash my face. It's kind of fun, and not annoying and painful. Death to body/facial hair, shaving (or epilating) is not nearly as fun catgirl-disgust

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

The frequency of me doing makeup is going to SKYROCKET after my facial hair is gone

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Just struggling lately, I'm going to bed early tonight. Goodnight Mega.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My dreams the last two nights have been really dark. Not scary/nightmares, just very upsetting subjects. Really hope this doesn't become a pattern.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

My dad really gives me trans-egg vibes sometimes, I swear. He saw that I was growing new hair, and said maybe he should get on E. Jokingly, of course, all in good fun. Would never actually do it, right? This is exactly how I started doggirl-smug

so...This is mostly a bit, but I'm covering my bases and I wouldn't be surprised. Like, 2/4 kids are trans, can't this be somewhat genetic sometimes?

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Re-styled my hair (mostly just changing where the part is) and did full makeup (eyeliner, concealer, foundation, light lipstick, mascara).

Hmm, I almost look like a girl. WAIT I ALMOST LOOK LIKE A GIRL catgirl-happy

I do think I'm giving up on eyeliner though, that shit is difficult and after finally being able to do my makeup myself I'm not about to forsake it all to attempt liquid liner. Do have a brown eyeliner pencil I'm excited to try, as well as some color correction for the stuff that needs to get burned off later catgirl-peace

I love that these emojis exist so much catgirl-heart

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

Forgot to mention I got some hair dye. It's happening, I'm becoming woke pronouns

It's like a really dark plumish-purple, btw. I'm literally Her catgirl-sorry

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

i wait months between running sudo pacman -Syu on my laptop 😎 it's probably fine. if it borks i just get to install a new os which is fun anyway

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I run sudo dnf update and flatpak update every time I boot my system, there's something satisfying about knowing everything's up to date and/or watching the new updates as they download

[–] Zvyozdochka@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

I run it at least once every couple of hours if I'm sitting at my desktop, not sure why, it's just something I do. Gentoo made me give up that habit because compiling packages takes a bit, but me and Gentoo are taking a break from one another, maybe one day...

i keep my main machine (fedora) updated is the weird thing lol. think I've been spoiled by KDE + GUI package management, could be time for a change on my laptop

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

no way warioware was developed by cishet people

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

So, I guess my hair always being in my face didn't change with the new style. Now it's in my face from both sides instead of one...

Please grow so I can either keep you behind my ears or up in a ponytail. Take my energy, please and kindly spirit-bomb

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

Hair in face is annoying.

It's damn cute tho

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 14 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Dreamt I got turned into a snail but I wasn't bottom-speak like the rest of y'all I was top-use-words and doing what I could to evade capture. My spirit was still strong I was a badass mollusk theory-gary

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

Gonna continue to hype myself up for my ability to count and read, we in the confidence arc lets-fucking-go tonight I'll read a physical book for 10 minutes.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My hungry ass could not be a banker πŸ€‘

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

Going on a show called β€œThe Ultimatum” when your relationship is only a year and a half old is kind of crazy to me.
What are you so desperate about?

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago

Impressed the cashier with my sheer brain muscles by confidently adding up to 20 very-smart walked out the store with 16 lbs of spaghetti with such confidence and swagger. This is how hunter gathers felt after a successful hunt I feel

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (6 children)

I want to be a homemaker. Cooking and cleaning are so fun because I’m in control (of my sense environment, energy expenditure, ideals, interests, etc), making progress of sorts, and alone.

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (4 children)
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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 13 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Is gender euphoria the right term for me when I'm happy that I feel agender? Idk but I feel very happy when I look at the agender flag and think "that me lol"

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[–] sneak100@hexbear.net 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

bio family stuff, religious traumaI don't talk to my family anymore, but I keep feeling bad about not giving my mother specifically more of a chance. She's part of a really abusive patriarchal relationship, so I have a lot of empathy for her on that level. The way that manifests usually is that I kinda wanna give her a call at some point maybe, but I always feel woefully underprepared for the evangelical flavoured queerphobic talking points she's so ready to throw out at me (last time we called she was trying to convince me to join conversion therapy). So to perhaps prepare for that on some level, this morning I was doing a bit of reading on my childhood church and it just fucked me up so hard. I'm such an anxious triggered mess now and feel like I ruined my whole day, all for the supposed benefit of someone who doesn't actually give a shit about me....

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 13 points 3 days ago

Some days I wish I was cis

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 3 days ago (5 children)

cost for me and my partner to get the train to the town nearby: Β£18

cost for me and my partner to drive, then park for six hours (inc. fuel): Β£11

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