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Not a huge thing, just some shoes and socks, and something people won't really pick up on (some Toms). But either way, a friend went with me for a confidence boost and I'm super happy.

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[–] kalimari@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 months ago (1 children)

After my first time spending half an hour clothes shopping on a weekday in a dying mall, I realized just how little people care about what others are buying. I was walking around a forever21 holding some shorts for like 15 minutes and got no weird glances whatsoever.

[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 16 points 2 months ago

Over here people act as if they're stealing when they go to the supermarket. Run in, grab that one thing, and get out as quickly as possible through the self checkout. It's quite amazing to look at, really.

It just makes you realize how few people actually stop to look at what others are doing.

[–] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 19 points 2 months ago (1 children)

that's so cool! I hope every time you look down and see them you feel euphoric ☺️

[–] vinceman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 2 months ago

I very much do!

I'm happy you're happy

[–] nickwitha_k@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 2 months ago

Congrats! I'm delighted for you. Every small victory deserves to be celebrated!

[–] tunasyne@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 months ago

omg that's amazing! so happy for you ^-^