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I joined Lemmy a few weeks before the API change. I loved the conversations. I loved how the content was slower but more engaging, and less politically charged. There was nobody shitting on Elon Musk, or Twitter, or Reddit.

People were having meaningful, engaging conversations about random stupid memes. It felt like the early days of the internet... It felt like a small community of outcasts that all got together and posted shitty memes for the sake of giving someone else a feed of shitty memes to scroll through while they were taking a shit... Or not taking a shit, apparently...

But now that the Reddit API change happened... It's like the super toxic part of Reddit was skimmed off the top and sent our way.

Every popular post is negatively charged. Every comment has an underpinning of hate. Everything is spun with some time of agenda that feeds half truths to make it look like whole lies.

What happened here? I thought this place was supposed to be better then Reddit? To not have some corporate overlord algorithm controlling us as part of some toxic hivemind?

Does anybody know of a Lemmy instance that has been spared from this proto-molecule outbreak?

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[–] this_is_router@feddit.de 28 points 1 year ago (3 children)

concern trolling: be the change you want to see, instead of creating even more drama

[–] Jfqs6m@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I try to be generally positive when commenting, but I'm usually not a poster... Not sure how questioning the direction of the masses is creating drama, but I guess they have spoken on the matter...

[–] this_is_router@feddit.de 28 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

What happened here? I thought this place was supposed to be better then Reddit?

Every popular post is negatively charged.

Every comment has an underpinning of hate.

Everything is spun with some time of agenda that feeds half truths to make it look like whole lies.

questions and statements like this are creating drama. block users and communities that you don't like and go with your day.

[–] goji@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

I used to think of “blocking” as an extreme measure, but for us individuals, it’s really not. You get to decide what your feed looks like. Especially here.

BAMO -> block and move on

What flipped the mental switch for me was facebook, of all places.

I hate it and was off it for years, then we moved to a small town with no subreddit, only a damn fb group. Man I went on a blocking spree with all the proudly terrible people, and now I have both an actually useful local town group AND a separate handy list of people I don’t need to bother meeting.