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[–] Lhianna@feddit.de 5 points 1 year ago (16 children)

I still don't understand why so many people are against self-diagnosis. Someone is suffering and trying to find help, a lot of people, especially minorities and women, can't find it professionally. What's wrong with those people looking for help themselves? Having a word for what is different with you helps finding this help.

I'm not talking about people claiming to be autistic and demanding attention and accomodations, that's a whole different story but trying to keep people from finding help themselves seems to be very wrong to me.

[–] vermingot@lemmy.antemeridiem.xyz 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Because a diagnosis can tell you what you are, it's not a supposition anymore, and you don't have to convince yourself as it becomes an objective truth. I used to think I was autistic, and while I wasn't that far, autism wasn't the right diagnosis and that new information allowed me to act on the right things. I live a much better life now than when I was relying on my self-diagnosis

[–] animelivesmatter@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Diagnoses aren't objective. Sorry to break that one to you. Obviously they can help, but let's not overstate what they are.

Just state your opinion, no need to be a dick about it

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