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[–] CountMonte@lemmy.world 234 points 1 year ago (104 children)

Our mortgage is $2600 month. My wife has a much better paying job than me. I make $2200 a month after taxes/deductions. She is currently going through cancer treatments and although everything is looking positive it really got me thinking about what the hell does life look like for my family if something happens to my wife?

I've had the same bus driving job for 23 years. I'm undereducated. A 2 bedroom, 1 bathroom apartment is $1600 month here. I don't know how I'd ever be able to take care of myself and two kids.

They want us to have 80k+ in school debt so you can be allowed to have mortgage debt or rent and own nothing. I don't know where I'm going with this but I'm just bummed out about life right now.

[–] DoomBot5@lemmy.world 86 points 1 year ago (14 children)

That's what life insurance polices are for. Will be pretty hard to get one with her cancer diagnosis though.

[–] Saeveo@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Are you not required to have a joint life assurance policy as a condition of a mortgage in the US?

[–] stalfoss@lemm.ee 50 points 1 year ago (1 children)

lol no, the bank doesn’t care, they’ll just take your house if you can’t pay

[–] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You literally beat me to this reply by like 4 minutes haha. Banks were giving variable mortgages to people who could barely afford current rates, they don't give a shit.

[–] shortwavesurfer@monero.town 8 points 1 year ago

I would never ever take an adjustable rate mortgage. That is just begging to get fucked. Like right now for example. My mortgage is like 4.2% but if it were an adjustable id be at like 6+% and be out of a house.

[–] transientDCer@lemdro.id 7 points 1 year ago

Not anywhere that I've seen, just home owners insurance and mortgage insurance if you pay less than 20% down.

[–] Denalduh@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Nope, at least not for my mortgage. The only thing that was required was a home owners insurance policy.

[–] June@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

I bought last year and there was nothing in the process that wanted either of us to have life insurance.

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

In the US they want you to default. They can flip the house for more than you owe them.

[–] Astroturfed@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

Lmao, what? You really think that?

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