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[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 95 points 18 hours ago (12 children)

Calling out rude people needs to be normalized. Stop being polite to those who aren't.

[–] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 45 points 17 hours ago (8 children)

Have fun with that...

I have called out rude people both politely and bluntly. Always is a conflict. So, just prepared to get into it.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 32 points 17 hours ago (4 children)

Lots of people are intentionally rude, hoping someone says something because they're addicted to rage and want to be "attacked" for something they feel is acceptable.

They'll immediately escalate, and especially in America you have no idea who has a gun. Making a reasonable request can be met with screaming and if you respond in kind then they feel "threatened".

Doesn't really matter what happens at trial, a crazy person that was looking for conflict just pulled their gun. The next 5 minutes matter more than the next five decades.

This means their current behavior becomes normalized, so now everyone is acting like it, people respond to anything with aggression because acting mentally unstable works. It makes the other person go away until you do it to someone even more unhinged.

A polite request to someone like that is a sign of weakness and guarantees an escalation, so even reasonable people stop being polite and start with direction.

The craziest are directing society.

It's not new and it's not the first time, but it rarely works out well for society.

[–] dokks@sh.itjust.works 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

This is why you make sure to video the interaction.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

That matters at the trial...

But like I said, in that situation what happens in the next five minutes matters more than anything else. Whether that unhinged person decides to shoot you or not.

[–] dokks@sh.itjust.works 1 points 15 hours ago

No argument here.

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