[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 56 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It's not harder, objectively.

It's just that people's expectations aren't realistic. And nobody is more bitter than average folks who think they are the top 1% of the dating pool, which is what the average person thinks. So many people in the dating pool make like 50k/yr and think you should be a millionaire to date them.

I've met so many women who are complete average looking, average income, etc. who think they DESERVE Don Draper and anything less is 'below them'. They'd rather be alone with their fantasy TV boyfriend then be in a real relationship with a person who is their equal. and plenty of dudes do the same with porn.

I'm a medium successful dude, and when I go out dating all I seem to encounter women who are worse than me in pretty much every metric who dunk on me for not being the top 1% man of their dreams. It's wild.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 31 points 3 months ago

the reality is that incompetent managers love to blame their employees for not doing shit they never told them to do.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 26 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

instances are just distinct servers really.

and some of them are purpose/politics specific.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 56 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

there is also more diverse content than the crap that was on here six months ago.

when 50% of the frontpage is linux memes... you're not going to gain the interest of most new users. now it seems to be down to about 20%

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Or is it just doomed to the vapidity of sterile commercialization?

It feels like everything is serious these days... and 'humor' is only of the commercial variety. Joke communities and circlejerk communities are considered 'hate groups' now. Mods will ban you for sarcastic comments on 'serious' topics, and even on non serious ones, and everything is politicized either by trolls, bots, or whackjobs.

It's boring when you can't joke anymore. I miss my internet communities of 5-10 years ago when you could joke around, and even people of different beliefs and persuasions could laugh at themselves.

Now everything is so deadly serious. It's a complete bummer. And any sort of 'edge' or sarcasm or sardonic remarks are ban-worthy.

I guess it's just poe's law run amok? I feel like mods could tell the difference 10 years ago and the non-jokey psychos were just ignored.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 27 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

having family help isn't the american dream. that's the aristocratic dream, where land is only owned by the wealthy who inherit it.

It blows my mind that the world basically runs on Monopoly money and accounting smoke and mirrors.

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[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 44 points 4 months ago

exactly. empathy is the ability to realize other people have different experiences than you. to think about what it's actaully like to be homeless.

but people think it means 'just agree with me and make me feel good, and if i feel bad for people i am a good person'

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 24 points 4 months ago

You are missing the point.

It's not about your shop. It's about everyone making their own furniture... which doesn't scale and isn't feasible.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 44 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Then you'd be wrong. Vast majority of people have financial aid/loans. 85%, in fact.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 103 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

My office has quite a few fresh grads who own their own places.

Their parents bought it for them for a graduation present.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 59 points 5 months ago

Bernie is the model of what a politician should be. And about the only one left in the USA that gives a fuck about actual justice and truth.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 44 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Not even.

All you really need is wealthy parents. That way you never have to have any debt and get exploited by the credit system and can live your life glib and clueless and wondering why other people are so lazy and poor and didn't work hard like you.

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 26 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Inflation is fine as long as wages rise with it.

The issue is our economy is entirely built around low interest rates and low inflation. It's been that way for a generation. This benefit asset-holders like home owners and the wealthy. Hence why they are doing everything possible to avoid wage-growth. They don't care about inflation, what they are terrified of is wage growth and higher interest rates.

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