Oh, but somebody please fucking tell me how great being LGBT in China is, and how overblown the oppression is. Somebody please, describe to me how there is no problem because my personhood would be recognized and my healthcare provided for if I'm lucky enough to be in a 'tier 1' city in the wonderful communist utopia of the PRC. Someone tell me this woman from China is lying about having to put the clamps on her Chinese account because the Chinese government want her, generally, to shut the fuck up, don't rock the boat. And of course, she's not been torturemurdered yet. So, with the threat of her partner's life. they've coerced her into giving up her white hat hacking career. Speak out, and we will throw your girlfriend into a death camp.

She was probably just unlucky she was born in one of those "backwards" places where the local police have unlimited power AND the tactlessness to use it. But she's a good uplifted middle class girl, so she should culturally have access to the China I'm told is real where this shit doesn't happen. Must be her fault for not moving to one of the good cities.